You can forgive someone for cheating. This doesn’t mean you have to be ruined by every breakup, but there should be a sense that this isn’t right — it’s not how it’s supposed to be. Below I share how to forgive someone who has hurt you in 15 steps: Step 1: Move On to the Next Act. Don’t let someone else’s mistakes make you someone you never intended to be. What a loving god we have, allowing someone to hurt you to teach you a lesson... 8 comments. The Bible says in Psalm 119:71: "It was the best thing that could have happened to me for it taught me to pay attention to your laws." Lmao. 6 Bible Verses to Help Forgive Someone Who Hurt You Lean on God to guide you in the process of forgiveness February 12th, 2015 Sarah Ortiz Bible Blog. The person you thought would love you more is the one you never thought would hurt you so much. Why doesn't He provide any peace, comfort, strength, etc for these people? . In contrast, God’s design in allowing certain satanic attacks is always good; God loves His children (1 John 4:16). Lord know’s she doesn’t deserve another victory. These are things that I had to do in my own life to overcome church hurt. In addition, it is the will of God to allow sickness, tragedy, natural disasters, etc., to occur. God, who cannot lie, promised long ages ago” (Ti 1:2). If someone has recently hurt you, you’ll know just how painful and arduous the process of recovery can be. On Nov. 21, 1980, when the MGM Grand Hotel in Las Vegas burned, survivors were brought into the Convention Center, where our Crusade meetings were being held. We all face suffering in some way, shape or form. And if it doesn’t hurt, it probably should. You will understand them and it will certainly help. Originally posted by mactoons. But forgiveness doesn’t mean you need to keep that person in your life. You just don't let yourself believe it will happen to you. a great affirmation, and reassurance for me today in choosing a transparent lifestyle of love and sharing our dreams with the world. It takes time. My goal is to deliver practical content to encourage you in your relationship with God. Still, as the all-powerful Creator God, nothing can happen in this universe without God allowing it to happen. But why does God allow suffering? In short, how do you let go of past hurts and move on? So we have seen that Satan’s trickery and Adam and Eve’s wrong choices introduced suffering into the world. God allows pain to teach you to depend on him. God won’t lie; it’s impossible. share. That’s easy to do in our own strength. God did not cause suffering. You may not see the forest for the trees when it comes to forgiveness, but there are valuable reasons why you should consider forgiveness as one of the options related to your anger, sadness, or other emotions tied to your situation. Here's some more about me -> 1. 29. God has a great future planned for you and He can’t give it to you with dysfunctional people around you messing it up. In an interview, Governor Robert List talked about the good times at the MGM only 24 hours before. save hide report. Even if you know how to let go of someone you love and follow all the steps, don’t expect to feel better immediately. Take a look at these reasons why you may want to forgive someone who hurt you: What a loving god we have, allowing someone to hurt you to teach you a lesson... Close. When someone hurts us, we are inadvertently letting them have an emotional hold over us. You might say a simple prayer like this: God I admit I can’t forgive (insert name) with my own power. Muhammad Ali “ The heart was made to be broken. But forgiving someone doesn’t mean you allow them a free passage back into your heart. I am by no means an expert at dealing with hurt in the church, but I have experienced hurt in the church. 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